Author Cait West joins Abbi Nye from CFCtoo for a frank conversation between two homeschooled daughters.

Cait and Abbi explore the intersections between Christian patriarchy, homeschooling, and religious trauma through Cait’s memoir, Rift: A Memoir of Breaking Away from Christian Patriarchy.

In Rift, Cait West tells a harrowing story of chaos and control hidden beneath the facade of a happy family. Weaving together lyrical meditations on the geology of the places her family lived with her story of spiritual and emotional manipulation as a stay-at-home daughter, Cait creates a stirring portrait of one young woman's growing awareness that she is experiencing abuse. With the ground shifting beneath her feet, Cait mustered the courage to break free from all she’d ever known and choose a future of her own making.

Rift is a story of survival. It’s also a story about what happens after you survive. With compassion and clarity, Cait explores the complex legacy of patriarchal religious trauma in her life, including the ways she has also been complicit in systems of oppression. A remarkable literary debut, Rift offers an essential personal perspective on the fraught legacy of purity culture and recent reckonings with abuse in Christian communities.

Cait West  is a writer and editor based in Grand Rapids, Michigan. Her work has been published in  The Revealer, Religion Dispatches, Fourth GenreHawai`i Pacific Review, and Newsweek, among others. As an advocate and a survivor of the Christian patriarchy movement, she serves on the editorial board for Tears of Eden, a nonprofit providing resources for survivors of spiritual abuse. She is the author of Rift: A Memoir of Breaking Away from Christian Patriarchy and was recently featured in the documentary For Our Daughters.